I'm reading a book
entitled Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl, the author is a Holocaust
survivor and in his book he offers details on surviving within a concentration
camp and how it fostered his psyche and outlook on life. Today I came
across a passage that really spoke to me, maybe because I'm about to turn 30 or maybe because I have an infatuation with life but I read this passage over
and over again. I'm going to quote it directly, see if it speaks to you
as it spoke to me...
"What was really needed
was fundamental change in our attitude toward life. We had to learn
ourselves and, furthermore, we had to teach the despairing men, that it did not matter what we expected from life,
but rather what life expected from us. We needed to stop asking about the meaning of life, and instead
to think of ourselves as those who were being questioned by life-daily and
hourly. Our answer must consist, not in talk and meditation, but in right
action and in right conduct. Life ultimately means taking the responsibility
to find the right answer to its problems and to fulfill the tasks which it
constantly sets for each individual."
"These tasks, and
therefore the meaning of life, differ from man to man, and from moment to
moment. Thus it is impossible to define the meaning of life in a general way.
Questions about the meaning of life can never be answered by sweeping
statements. "Life" does not mean something vague, but something
very real and concrete, just as life's tasks are also very real and concrete.
They form man's destiny, which is different and unique for each
individual. No man and no destiny can be compared with any other man or
any other destiny. No situation repeats itself, and each situation calls
for a different response. Sometimes the situation in which a man finds
himself may require him to shape his own fate by action. At other times
it is more advantageous for him to make use of an opportunity for contemplation
and to realize assets in this way. Sometimes man may be required simply
to accept fate, to bear his cross. Every situation is distinguished by
its uniqueness, and there is always only one right answer to the problem posed
by the situation at hand."
"When a man finds
that it is his destiny to suffer, he will have to accept his suffering as his
task; his single and unique task. He will have to acknowledge the fact
that even in suffering he is unique and alone in the universe. No one can
relieve him of this suffering or suffer in his place. His unique opportunity
lies in the way in which he bears his burden."
Wow... powerful, isn't
it.
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